“You Should Be Carrying A Child Not Balloon” – Lady Breaks Friend Celebrating Her Anniversary

A Nigerian lady has revealed how a former close friend of hers tried to break her over her childlessness during the celebration of her third wedding anniversary.

The woman took to her social media page to share a 3rd wedding anniversary/birthday photoshoot with her husband as they both held a balloon in the shape of number 3. 

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She then went on to recount how the said friend humiliated her for giving her husband a balloon to carry instead of a child. 

See what she wrote;

“I got married on my birthday 6 years ago. So its always a holiday literally in our home… yeah great stuff but I have a story. Stay with me. 

“I posted this picture as per felicitations on MY BIRTHDAY, ON MY PAGE and a ‘friend’ (at that time) sends a message. 

“This was the message…  Happy Birthday Kiki. Wishing you many more wins. This is coming from a place of love, dont you think its embarrassing that for your 3rd year anniversary you are making your husband carry a balloon when he should be carrying his child/children? This should be more of a reflection so I believe in times like this, have wisdom so your enemies will not rejoice over you. Xoxo. 

“I kept that message. I laughed. I clapped. I ‘Heheheddd , I folded my hands put them on my head. It was s000 many feelings I couldn’t express. “For me it was just a picture. I was celebrating a healthy marriage & a happy birthday. I was genuinely in a happy place. I truly evaluated where my mind was and the smile on this picture was for me. I was honestly thankful for the amazing life I have. 

“My Life wasnt & still isnt perfect, but it is mine. I dnt deserve that message & in my heart I knew I had lost a friend.  I never deleted that message TILL TODAY. I had transferred that same screenshot from BlackBerry, to Samsung to iPhone to Eternally VEX 

“It wasnt worth it. Which of God’s mercies can I deny? None!!!!  I’m shedding weight in my life I’m decluttering. 2020 has been heavy but unforgettable in amazing ways. 

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“I have been cleaning house, work, closet, everything except my heart.  That’s where the hard work is… If 2020 taught us anything… Its definitely that there is no time for ‘IRANU’ & no one and nothing should have enough power to hold your Joy Ransom!”